Toddler Survival Hacks That Actually Make Life Easier

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It’s funny to me that toddlers are called that because they toddle around. In reality, they only toddle for the first few months of learning to walk. After that, they’re more like bulldozers. At least my two boys are.

Life can get pretty hectic with toddlers—whether you have one, two, or more. Here are some real-life toddler survival tips I use in my day-to-day to make things a little more manageable.

Toy rotation: Toddlers get bored of things quickly. I rotate the boys’ toys out at least twice a month. It’s super easy to do with storage bins like these from Target (SO AFFORDABLE), and it makes old toys feel new again.

Clear bin storage: When the twins first started playing with toys, I used cute wicker storage cubes. While they looked nice, they weren’t practical. I switched everything to clear bins, and it made a huge difference. My boys may be wild, but they’re GREAT at independent play—and I really think our storage system plays a role in that.

Our current set up in the twins' room!

Snack station: Toddlers get hangry fast. Having an accessible snack station has been a game changer. We use a fruit stand for fruit, Goldfish packs, and yogurt or applesauce pouches. The boys can grab what they need on their own—especially after daycare.

The feral toddler grazing station

Car organizer bin: I’m a bit of a neat freak, which is tough with little kids. To keep things from rolling all over the car, I use an organizer bin like this. I keep a few toys, snacks, books, and even their sunglasses in it. I also clip a pacifier holder to the outside.

Frontload every transition: Toddlers thrive on routine and clear expectations. I let the boys know we’re about to transition before every. single. activity. Is it exhausting? Yes. But it beats dealing with meltdowns from surprises.

Offer two choices: Toddlers love independence—but within limits. I always offer two choices, not more. Myles has had full-blown meltdowns at my parents’ house just from being offered too many popsicle flavors at once.

Out of sight, out of mind: If something is causing a meltdown, remove it AND keep it out of sight. I have to remind my husband of this all the time. If they can see it, they will fixate on it.

Validate their feelings: This one has reduced about 90% of whining and tantrums in our house. Sometimes toddlers just want to be heard. I’ll say something like, “Oh, you’re sad because ___?” and 9 times out of 10, they just say “yeah” and move on.

Distract and redirect: When they want something they can’t have or start whining, I change the subject completely. Today, Myles didn’t want to get in his car seat, so instead of arguing, I started talking about the trucks outside. Instant. Compliance.

Toddlers are TOUGH. And sometimes you can do everything “right” and they’ll still act like little gremlins. But controlling the environment and talking them through the hard moments makes a huge difference.

If I’m missing any good ones, let me know in the comments!

And pin this for later! I promise it makes a difference! 🤍

Posted from the heart,

Mama Poe